Clay in advice column

From Newsday.com:

DEAR AMY: I am a 15-year-old boy. I am a sophomore in high school, and no one likes me. I am so worried that there is something wrong with me. I get good grades and am in the choir. All the guys in my class make fun of me, because I am the only male in the choir. The girls in my class think I am a geek because I get good grades. Amy, I love to sing and get good grades, and I would be so sad without it. Should I quit singing and fail on purpose, just so people will stop making fun of me? Tenor in Chicago



DEAR TENOR: I have two words for you: Clay Aiken.


Clay Aiken, the pop singer and "American Idol" star, could have written your letter when he was in high school. Like you, he was the only male in the school choir, and, like you, he was bullied.

In his book, "Learning to Sing" (2004 Random House), Aiken outlines his struggle with high school bullies. "I was teased by other kids like it was their job," he says.

If your choir has a travel choir or madrigal group, try out for it. These activities are where you will find other smart and accomplished kids like you who no doubt get picked on by other kids who are jealous of their success in the classroom.